Why do we get married? We get married because we do not want to spend our Sundays alone. After a certain age like 30, most of the people marry for some reasons which are called love, religion, requirements and so on. For instance some get marry because they having sex with someone is a sin in the case of religion or some man get marry to be able to label another people with his last name like that is an achievement, some woman only love the idea of wearing the fascinating white dress and some need woman to look after themselves like a free servant, and some woman need a man to feel being protected like a free bodyguard. People may have different perceptions to marriage, can have different procedure in marriage but as a result people get married because they need another person. Loneliness may be bearable but when Sundays come, everyone choose to be with their family which they build on their own. However, in today’s world, people are may feeling less alone than before because they have computers so that they can spend time with their social networks rather than husbands wives or children.
Your opinions about marriage are pretty meaningful and most of the ideas you mentioned i agree with you , maybe it is a bit personal question but which reason/feature is most important for you about marraige except from love ? ( i know you will choose love at first but what is the second one ? ) :p :)
YanıtlaSilYou may right,many have different expectations from marriage.In addition to your points,another common thing which determines marriage is "money". Both women and men often consider this issue before the marriage.Maybe you find this is a bit cliche.Unfortunately it is usually sad but true.
YanıtlaSilCansu,I think if a 60-years-old man has lot a of money and decide to get married a 20-years-old beautiful woman, he deserves to be used for money. If a woman does the the same, she deserves it, too. I agree with you, that is another reason why people get married. But my point is who decide there should be signature, wedding, or ring to bond couples? why we get our husband's last name? Aren't we have the value to carry our own names?
YanıtlaSilİsmoli =) , I think respect to each other is crucial in a marriage. People should understand each other and respect others' opinions. Few sacrifices can be done may be, but in all relationships, people should not accept sacrifices for themselves from their partners.
YanıtlaSilı think you show marriage with is all magnificence.''not want to spend our Sundays alone'' this maybe the key point which explain people want to spend their life with their lover which create lifelong marriage.
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